Aha, 'appreciate you taking time out to spew forth. [/trying to be less aloof :>]

Yeeeahhh, that movie clip makes me wonder why we have to see the breakup/aftermath from Kyousuke's POV when all it did was reinforce his coldness more than anything else...

Madoka probably subverted the Yamato Nadeshiko trope*. But as you lamented, chauvinisticmasturbatory fantasies will be what they'll be regardless of actual context *cough*Ayanami*cough*

EDIT: Or whichever trope stipulates Girl A must end up with Protagonist Dude and to everyone else: be mindful of FALLING ROCKS KTHXBAI